6 Tips to Make Him Chase You

Make Him Chase YouIt is not uncommon for women to chase men but still, most women want to be chased and pursued by men. So how to make him chase you?

Play hard to get. Men love to be challenged and they love the chase so play hard to get and make him chase you instead. Men value something or someone he worked hard for. Let him do what men should be doing, that is be the one who pursue women. Give him the feeling that he earned you.

Be mysterious. Spilling every detail of your life or pouring all your feelings is not very attractive to most men. Actually, this behavior could scare men especially if you just met or just started dating. Be a little mysterious and let him wonder about your life. The curiosity will make him chase you.

Always look good. Take care of your appearance. Practice good hygiene and put attention to small details like your feet and nails. Some women love to wear nice sandals and open shoes but sometimes forget to take care of their feet. Dress to kill or wear clothes that make you look sexy and classy at the same time but remember that being sexy doesn’t mean showing more skin. You can be sexy without revealing too much and besides, you do not want to send a wrong message to men. Choose a hairstyle that looks good on you. Take care of your skin. Maintain a healthy and fit body. Men are visual and they love seeing women who look good. Your good looks will make him chase you.

Have a sense of humor. The ability to make everyone around you laugh is admirable. Most men want to be with someone who has a bright aura. Women can be serious or dramatic and this trait sometimes scare men or they find them boring. So when a man meet a woman who is witty, jolly and with sense of humor, he most likely want to be with her again because there is no dull moments with her and she can get along with different types of people. It is not that this woman doesn’t have a serious side or doesn’t have problems but it just that she sees the brighter side, can still laugh and make others laugh despite the realities of life. This trait is truly admirable and can make him chase you.

Be a good listener. There is this common notion that women are big talkers which is an advantage sometimes especially if they are with men who are the silent type. But talking too much could scare men away because no matter how silent a man is, he still wants to be heard. A woman who knows that conversation is not only about talking but it is also about listening is admirable. A woman who knows how to encourage men to talk and knows how to listen is the kind of woman most men would like to chase.

Be smart and intelligent. If women are attracted to intelligent or smart men, it is the same with men. Men want to be challenged. Men want to be with women who can carry conversations with them about anything. You must be a person who likes to read, good at something or likes to learn new things. She may not know everything but she’s smart to show interest on thing he’s passionate about.

6 Traits Men Are Attracted To

A woman's smileThere are certain traits that attract men. Every man has their own preference, but there are general traits that make a woman attractive to most men. Here are some of the traits men are attracted to:

A woman’s smile. A smile is a universal language for being friendly and most men are attracted to women with beautiful smile. We often hear people saying “smile and the whole world will smile at you” and it is true. It is an infectious gesture and one of the traits men are attracted to.

A woman’s feminine nature. Not all women are feminine, that is why men love to see the feminine side of women because it is one of the traits men are attracted to. Aside from the long hair, smooth skin, long legs, slim body, soft voice and attractive eyes which are all physical traits, the compassionate kindhearted soul, caring and nurturing nature of women are all feminine nature that are attractive to most men. Being feminine doesn’t mean being overly shy. A feminine woman is sociable, but with good manners and not loud. She carries herself well and exudes a feminine aura.

A woman who is down to earth. Most men stay away from arrogant and demanding women. Yes it is true that most women want to be treated like a princess, but this doesn’t mean that you have to act like one. A woman with a princess syndrome is not the kind of woman who attract men because being down-to-earth is one of the traits men are attracted to.

A woman with a strong personality. Having a strong personality is not being conceited, but it means being mentally strong. A woman who knows how to survive despite the harsh reality of life. She’s confident about herself and knows her worth. She’s a women with a positive outlook in life and not easily swayed by negative things.

An independent woman. Although it is true that no man is an island, men are attracted to women who are not completely dependent to others. Most men stay away from needy women. Men admire women who can live on their own and can make their own decisions especially major decisions in life.

An intelligent woman. Men want to be challenged and although most men are attracted to beautiful women, intelligence is one of the traits men are attracted to. They want women who can converse with them and can challenge their minds. They want women who are good at something and does not depend solely on their physical appearance.

With the increasing number of single women, the competition for eligible men is not easy. If you have the traits men are attracted to, you are ahead of other women.

7 Traits That Make a Woman Stand Out

She has her own styleWith a lot of single women like you out there and most single men are already taken, the competition for single men is high. To succeed in dating, a woman should be capable of getting the attention of those single men. So what makes a woman stand out?

She’s oozing with confidence. Take note, it is confidence and not arrogance because those are two different things. An arrogant person is someone who thinks she’s better than anyone else. A confident woman is someone who knows her worth but still respects others. A confident woman knows her value, knows what she wants and knows how to get it. Confidence is one of the traits that makes a woman stand out.

She has her own style. She’s not a copy cut but she has her own style and personality. Many women are victims of hypes and trying to look like someone who is popular so these women end up like replicas who dress alike and act alike. It is not bad to follow the trend but a woman who stands out knows herself and has her own style, a style that suits her personality. Having a style of her own makes a woman stand out. A woman who exudes her own style stands out in the midst of women who dress and act alike.

She looks at the brighter side. A woman who is not melodramatic and does not take things too seriously is admirable. Life can be full of drama and unexpected circumstances but she knows how to look at the brighter side and do not let stress and problems take the best of her. A woman who has the ability to look at the brighter side despite the harsh realities of life makes her stand out. A positive attitude makes a woman stand out.

She’s fun to be with. Although she doesn’t live an easy-going life, she can be spontaneous and can have an easy-going attitude once in a while. She doesn’t make a big deal out of everything. She knows how to have fun and she’s fun to be with.

She’s good at something. What a ballerina, a woman book author or a writer, a woman who paints and showcase her works in art galleries or exhibits, an excellent cook, a woman who designs clothes, a woman who can play musical instruments and a woman who plays sports have in common? They stand out because they are skilled and good at something. Not all women who are good at something were born gifted but they are women who are passionate about something and coupled their passion with actions. You can do the same if you want to stand out. What is your passion? Are you doing something about it? Being good at something makes a woman stand out.

She can express herself and can make decisions. Many women avoid making decisions and airing their opinions because they are afraid. They leave those things to men which some men find a little burdensome. The ability to make decisions and speak her mind can make a woman stand out. She doesn’t have to be forceful but when asked, she should be able to express herself and make decisions.

Her independence. She’s not clingy. She’s comfortable on her own and she knows how to handle her life. Although she wants a man in her life, her world doesn’t revolve only around men. She has her own thing going and she’s in control of her own life. She can live on her own and not needy.

5 Tips in Dealing With a Shy Guy Dating Tips for Women

Shy Guy DatingGuys should pursue women. That is the natural order but what if the guy is so shy? Some women find themselves liking a shy guy and end up so frustrated because they keep waiting for him to do the first move. Dealing with a shy guy could be a challenge and you need to have the guts to make the first move, at least until he gets comfortable around you because sometimes all a guy needs is a girl who can help him overcome his shyness. Are you dealing with a shy guy? Here are some helpful tips.

Do not take his shyness personally. A guy’s shyness has nothing to do with you. A shy guy is naturally uncomfortable around women so do not think that he’s uncomfortable only with you and do not think that something is wrong with you. Shyness is just part of his nature but it has nothing to do with his feelings towards you. Dealing with a shy guy can be very difficult if you will start taking it personally and will start thinking something is wrong with you.

Learn how to engage him in a conversation. You could wait forever for a shy guy to start the conversation so you have to learn how to make him engage in a conversation. It requires guts to initiate a conversation with guy who is extremely shy but if you really like him, it is best to try than not to try at all. Before taking a step forward and initiate a conversation, find a common interest between the two of you so that you know what to talk about. Maybe you both love music or you both love a certain hobby. Once there is a common interest, it is easier to engage him to talk or have a conversation with you. It may take a while for a shy guy to engage in a face-to-face conversation so in this case, social media, chat apps and text messaging can be very helpful to start the conversation and get to know each other well before facing each other. No matter what the medium is, the most important thing in dealing with a shy guy is to help him talk and open up to you.

Be patient. Guys who are shy need time to feel comfortable with the opposite sex and rushing him or forcing him to go out of his shell will not be helpful. Dealing with a shy guy requires patience. Do not expect a fast progress. If he managed to start texting you, do not pressure him to make frequent calls. Take things slowly. Do not rush him but provide him a comfortable environment and make him feel that he is free to express himself when he’s ready. Do not pressure him or force him but let things happen naturally.

Respect his privacy. A shy guy can be very private and it is a big leap for him to step forward and share things with you so if he managed to accomplish that, respect his shared feelings. It is best to keep those things for yourself. He may not appreciate hearing that you shared those things he confided to you with your family and friends. It is important to gain his trust and confidence for him to continue opening himself to you. Dealing with a shy guy requires you to be respectful of his shared feelings and his privacy.

Make him feel good about himself. A shy guy lacks confidence maybe because he has insecurities or does not know his worth. In dealing with a shy guy, it is important to help him boost his confidence. Make him feel that he matters. If you need help on something he is good at, do not hesitate to ask help from him. But it is important that you are sincere and not only pretending that you need help just to make him feel good. Sincerely praise him and remember even the little things he shared with you. Let him know that shyness is something that can be defeated and let him feel that he is not alone because people including you can be shy too once in a while.

Dealing with a shy guy can be a challenge but if you know what to do, you can help this guy go out of his shell and enjoy dating.